On Life & Being Human

In this episode, we discuss why those who claim they love you, but act like they don't, might actually truly believe that they love you, but they do not have the capacity to love you any more than they can love themselves. We go in depth on how to use this concept to assess ourselves and others and further your own growth. Send in your questions using the form on the community page at KathrynColleen.com and let me know how I can help! : )

In this episode, we talk about the different between freeing up your time and freeing up your attention and how space in your attention leads to developing intention. We talk about the need to let go of the desire or attachment to your intentions and how to consistently put out a strong signal of your intentions while letting go of your attachment to them.

In this episode, we offer evidence that you can in fact will yourself to will, exercise your will and choose to be whatever you want. And we talk about a great way to know what to do for others (and yourself) by asking what you need to BE. Lastly, we address an audience question from a parent who suspects their child is faking later stages to manipulate them into giving them housing, money, etc.

In this episode, we focus in depth on the topic of when and how to take a break from specific family members, and the circumstances required for reconnection in a healthy way. This is based in large part on my own experience and I hope it will help you too. Is there a family member you need to get away from? Or maybe there is a family member you would like to reconnect with? This works for close friends as well as family so dive in! Send in your questions using the new form at http://kathryncolleen.com/studio/community/ and let me know how I can help!

This episode is a big jumble of interesting things including whether peace means an open heart, how and why to dive into love, a giant list of great questions, how surgery can bring back unresolved trauma, and a great audience question about how to avoid getting a negative attitude and tendency to commoditize people from your nasty commute to and from work.

In this episode, we talk about a taboo subject - religion. You aren't supposed to talk about religion... so let's do it! We discuss discomfort with the idea of religion and the inconsistencies but also the benefits and how you can get closer to your faith. We also talk about religious rejection, and how any religion can be used to justify any behavior (no, really!) and we answer an audience question about how to know what stage you are in when it seems like you are in several different stages all at the same time. Listen to the podcast to find out where to send your questions and let me know how I can help!

In this episode, we answer the question of whether specific challenges appear in specific stages of development. The answer is an annoying yes and no. Some stages tend to have some specific challenges but in true yin-yang fashion, some challenges can come anytime and drag you into specific stages. We also answer a question from the audience about how exactly to start getting your shit together - where to begin and in what order to tackle things.

Wow - this episode got heavy fast. But it's a dose of truth that we all need. In this episode we talk about seeing the whole truth of people - the mistakes and the contributions - not just one or the other. We talk about demonization of people past and present and how critical it is to see the humanity in ourselves and in others.... how critical it is to NOT judge; to see the whole person and not judge that person. It is a hard skill to learn but critical for your development.

In this episode, we talk about a survey of people in 100 countries that reveals how regardless of your status, country, religion, finances, etc, we all have the same problems and there are fewer than 60 of them. This means we have the chance to solve them! Then we discuss seven different methods for finding your purpose collected from all over and how combining the results of all of them is the way to get to the details of what you are here to do.

In this episode, we talk about the frustration typically experienced after reaching stage 11 for the first time and realizing that you still have to do the dishes and the car still needs to be repaired, etc. Regardless, here you are. We discuss the expectation of transcendence, how to transcend OTHER people's realities and answer an audience question on how to understand and deal with a boss that comes in angry and sabotages the team. It all about the practical realities of life.

In this episode, we talk about how the cycle of development applies to societies and humanity at large as well as it does to individuals; examples from our past and what it means for the future of nations and humanity itself. This is a great way to understand what is happening in various societies today and where it will all lead.

In this episode we get REALLY NERDY, talking about the Higgs Field, the Higgs Boson and it's possible relationship to the divine - no really.... it's a fun thought exercise. Follow along and see if you agree. : )

In this episode, we talk about a process for naming what you need to retrain and how to retrain your beliefs, behaviors, etc and more importantly how to stick to it and make it permanent.

In this episode, we talk about why manifesting sometimes doesn't work. What is means if you feel like you are struggling to make something happen, and how to use that to make better decisions about relationships, jobs, and everything else.

In this episode, we discuss exactly what others could help you to assess in yourself and what you should only listen to yourself to assess, and the pitfalls of letting others (or yourself) asses and label you in the wrong areas. I also answer an audience question on what to say to someone when you suspect (for reasons of passing) that you will not have an opportunity to talk to them again. Heavy stuff indeed!

In this episode, we discuss how finding peace in your life means addressing five different areas (at least), and the questions that can get you started in each area. Don't feel that you have to tackle them all at once. Pick one area that needs work and take one small step!

And the award for longest podcast title goes to.... in this episode, we discuss why self-development is not counter to religion (or science) and how your religion can actually be a catalyst for self-development. We go further into why questioning your beliefs and religion is not at all blasphemous but is critical to bringing you even closer to your faith.

In this episode, I detail a new method for when you are struggling with an important decision or when you are simply about to make an important decision and think you know what the right answer is. Double check yourself with this method. This method is fairly quick (less than an hour for sure) and makes the right choice so glaringly obvious that you cannot deny it.

In this episode, we discuss a new method I recently came up with for disarming the limiting beliefs that you simply cannot seem to get out of your head. I found this method to be very effective! I hope it helps you too.

In this episode, I discuss my own awakening and methods for seeing any kind of crisis as an opportunity. If you are going through a crisis right now, you need to listen to this episode!